i’d say its not too different than how most men go through life without ever thinking about what its like for non-males.
im starting to think that for too many people all this shit will only ever be theoretical.
and when shits only ever theoretical to you, you can afford to brush it aside, shush people, act hurt like its about you when the truth is called out, accuse others of being too sensitive, etc.
its never real to them. it never will be. they can only speculate.