If you want to be treated with respect, treat yourself first with respect, you can’t ask to be treated a certain way when your behavior paints an image that does not command it.
It’s not victim blaming, it’s simply telling girls to start being more responsible of their behavior, instead of simply blaming everything on the guy who was just going along with what you were doing.
I may not agree with EVERYTHING she says, but I give props when and where it’s due.
(via earthwindfire82)
This doesn’t apply to everything but I understand how it’ll work for relationships.
At the end of the day, you set the precedent for how you think you should be treated. I agree with that part.
But I also know that you can only impress upon someone how you would like to be treated. How they treat you is up to them. If they disrespect you then you have the choice to take it or leave it, and if you take it then you can’t keep blaming that other person for disrespecting you, can you?
(via baldblkgirl)
i really want to tell this person to shut the entire fuck up. and let me tell you why: BECAUSE RAPE. IS. NEVER. THE. VICTIM’S. FAULT.
oh my god this makes me shake with rage. it really does - because you simple motherfuckers BELIEVE this shit - and then you go on and spread this vile poison to other people - and sooner or later, so many of you have said it that you believe it’s true - and then some poor girl gets raped because her skirt was too short - and of course men are animals and they can’t control themselves - and all of a sudden “it’s not victim blaming. she knew what she was doing - going out looking all goddamn sexy and edible and shit, it’s not HIS fault for raping her. it’s her fault for looking like she wanted to be raped.”
SHUT. THE. FUCK. UP.
because i don’t care if the bitch is parading around naked and saying “i want 78 men to fuck me like a tunnel entrance while i pour peanut butter and jelly on my tits and each of them choke me and call me a goddamn whore while they spray their cum all over me and spit in my mouth.” i don’t care if she’s walking down the street nude saying “CALLING ALL COCKS! IN MY PUSSY NOW! ALLLLLLL COCKS!” i don’t care if she’s dressed like a cut-throat, ball busting business woman in a 3 piece tailored suit from Suits R Us. i don’t care if she’s a goddamned nun. i don’t care if she’s wearing a burqa or hijab. i. d. g. a. f.
at the moment she says no? even if that penis is a 16th of an inch from entering her - hell, even if that penis is inside her when she says no? YOU. STOP. that’s it. those are the rules. that’s all there is to it.
that’s the moment you STOP.
all the rest of this quote from the OP? BULLSHIT.
(via peecharrific)
I AM SCREAMING W YOU PEECHY!!!!
(via soydulcedeleche)
…I…why the fuck is this ignorant victim blaming yotch on the mic?
So in general, I really, really agree with this. However, I wanted...bring something up...
IGAVUIVFBRUDSK Thank you. I read the first two comments and had to read the quote twice to see where the heck they were...
As I’ve posted on several sites and several blogs, Rape IS NEVER warranted. I don’t know how many ways I have to say it....
juicy part right here. BTW, WTF is...fucked up victim-blaming meme where rape
Women shouldn’t be responsible for their actions. They’re innocent creatures...they’re...